Are you stepping gently in to 2021, somewhat like “if we just slip in at the back, it won’t even know we are here and won’t give us any trouble”? Or will you loudly proclaim your doneness with 2020 and challenge 2021 to up it’s game?
Either way, 2021 will happen. So will all the years to follow. Time ain’t stopping for nobody. So what’s your plan?
If you read our posts often you’ll notice the recurring message of “have a plan”, “don’t coast through life”, “clarity is key” and “go after your dream because YOU’RE WORTH IT!” That’s because your friendly leather maker is also a certified life coach and I want you to live your best life while accessorizing with style.
It’s simple, when you feel good, you do good. So leather is always a great idea!
Do you know what is also a great idea? Dreaming about your future! Now more than ever.
You cannot control what will happen in the world in the upcoming year but you can control how you show up. And that is where your dream and plan come in. How will you need to show up in the near future to get you closer to your dream?
What do I mean by this?
Your results are because of your actions which are because of your thoughts and therefore your feelings.
For example, 2 women want to start their own small business:
The first woman has a lot of self doubt and allows her brain to run wild with thoughts like “the family needs me now”, “I don’t know how to start a business”, “what if I fail?”, “what will Wilma think of me?”, “I don’t have time for this now, maybe later”.
The second woman also has lots of self doubt but she is working on conditioning her brain and thoughts to behave better than before and she is thinking “I can be around for my family AND do this for me”, “I don’t know how but everything is figure-out-able”, “I could fail, but I could also succeed, either way I will grow”, “it’s none of my business what Wilma thinks of me”, “I deserve this and I deserve it now!”
Thoughts ——> Feelings ——> Actions ——> Results.
One of these women is in a better frame of mind to take better action to get better results.
Which brings us back to how will you show up for your dreams and plans? Reverse engineer the above. What are the results you want? What are the actions you need to take? What do you need to feel to move into action? What are the thoughts you need to be thinking to get those feelings? Nothing will change if nothing changes.
As for 2021, step forward boldly because you are standing a little straighter because you have a plan!
And because YOU’RE WORTH IT!
Hugs,
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